Frequently asked questions

Screening, Deposit/Refund policies, General questions

Booking Policies

I only respect men who respect me so I have two rules for booking:

  1. You MUST include your age, race, requested date length, location, and preferred date in your inquiry
  2. Please do NOT ask me sexually explicit questions or send sexually explicit content in your inquiry!!

My service is the STANDARD full. It does not come with extras. Trying extra things in person without prior discussion is grounds for a lifetime ban.

For my own safety I require either an ID, passport, or a work profile (e.g. LinkedIn) as well as a verification photo or video call for screening. I do not accept references from other providers as screening. No exceptions.

A $100 deposit is required for all in person sessions.

The deposit ($100) is nonrefundable for bookings cancelled with less than 48 hours notice. If, for any reason, I have to cancel, your deposit will be refunded back in full.

Online content

Yes, I do! I’m open to most kinks and fetishes, including hard

Email me! I’m always open to custom videos and pictures. Be advised that I do ask for ID verification (birthday only) for all online content

Yes, I do offer video and phone sessions. Be advised that I do ask for ID verification (birthday only) for all online sessions.

Popular Questions

I do offer FMTY as long as all expenses (air and car travel, room, etc.) are taken care of.

I mostly work within MD, DC, and VA cities and very rarely tour. Therefore, I will not respond to “do you plan to come to [area].” If you’d like to see me then come to me or transport me to you.

I only accept the deposit through payment apps (Cash App, Venmo, and PayPal. I don’t do Zelle) and prefer the balance in cash. I do not accept gift cards or crypto.

Just yourself (: Gifts are never required but always loved and appreciated! Gifting is my love language so I’ll never say no to one. They also give me a great opportunity to show how I express gratitude.

If I were to do this, ruminate on why it would be with a new client who does the same with every single provider he sees. Who then does the same with every client she sees. I’m not the provider for you and you’re DEFINITELY not the client for me.

If you ask me what’s not included in my standard anyway, I’m simply not responding. This is clearly it and I like those with reading comprehension skills.

My job is to please you. The absolute only things that please me are tips and gifts.

Photos and videos during dates are only permitted for regulars and are not allowed for hobbyists at all.

As my screening policy says, I do not accept references. Despite my many warnings, they’re still being submitted as such. Any and all emails that include a forum/review username as screening will now automatically be blocked.

Then there are providers who don’t have this as a prerequisite (:

If you don’t receive a response, it’s simply because I decided that we did not align; therefore, your email, screening info included, was deleted. You lose absolutely nothing by screening ahead.

Then you can’t afford me. Period point blank. There are few things I find so incredibly disrespectful and insulting as trying to convince me to lower my rate. You’re not the first to ask, and you won’t be the last.

For a mere $10,000/month you can have an exclusive relationship with me. Otherwise, hard no. (I’m not going on trips with you for free either)